My dearest viewers, sorry for the long break. We here at Out & Proud In Sxm, have a fun filled round (2) coming soon.
Many has asked me, what it's like being GAY. For the inquiring minds, and for those of you who haven't followed my blog, here is my reply to you.
Being a Lesbian, is my normal way of life, its just like all of you that are STRAIGHT. Me being GAY is not some abstract thought or thinking, and its not to be taken lightly. I'm GAY, and I know what it means. If anyone take a good look at me, most of you would know who and what I am right away. I'm not hiding my sexuality from anyone, because you're free to LOVE whom ever you like.
As I've always said, BE OUT & PROUD! You don't have to HIDE & LIE about who you are anymore. I would not lie to anyone about my sexuality, because the worst thing about being lied to, is knowing you're not worth the truth.
Being a OUT & PROUD LESBIAN, I'm urging all those of you that are having difficulties to COME OUT, to do so!!! Both YOUNG & OLD alike, BE OUT & PROUD!!!!!!! It's not only about you, but it's about "US" as a Community. Let us take a STAND for EQUALITY, a stand for freedom, to be free to love whom ever you love.
I'm living on the DUTCH ISLAND of ST. MAARTEN, and EQUAL RIGHTS FOR SAME SEX COUPLES, is not a TOPIC that's been discussed here; now is the time to let our voices be heard, know your rights, "BE OUT & PROUD", whether you're LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, or TRANSGENDER, let your voices be HEARD....
Still today, there are COUNTRIES that are trying to pass a "LAW" to make HOMOSEXUALITY punishable by death. Join the fight to stop discrimination and violence against THE LGBT COMMUNITY worldwide.
I recently found out about a FOUNDATION here on ST. MAARTEN, that is also working on bringing awareness to our people, to let them know that they have a S.A.F.E. place to go and be their selves. S.A.F.E. SXM- ST. MAARTEN/ST.MARTIN ALLIANCE FOR EQUALITY, its not all business all the time, they have fun activities planned as well.
S.A.F.E. SXM is headed by Ms. Lysanne Charles President, and several board members. The Foundation is geared at creating more awareness, educating the people, while becoming a strong unit at the same time. OUT & PROUD IN SXM will be happy to joint ventures with S.A.F.E. SXM in the near future.
One of the planned activity coming up for S.A.F.E is happening this SUNDAY JUNE 1st, 2014, a pleasurable fun filled HIKE TO BACK BAY POINTE BLANCHE, COME OUT ONE N ALL AND JOIN IN THE FUN. You can also visit S.A.F.E. SXM on their website, www.safesxm.com.
P.S. BE FREE TO LOVE WHOM EVER YOU WANT TO LOVE.
PLEASE EMAIL YOUR COMING OUT STORY TO outnproudsxm@gmail.com.
M. MADURO.
Thursday, May 29, 2014
Thursday, March 20, 2014
Coming Out Stories: Young Love
Over the break, I received a story of young love that I wanted to share with you all. Though out to the world, this fan is still not comfortable posting her name to the site. So I'd like to share her story with you.
When did you first
know or discover that you were gay?
I knew that I was gay when I was between the ages of 12-13
years old. But even though I knew, I never paid attention to those feelings until I
started high school. Now I did take a
liking to boys early on, but pursuing boys at a young age usually ended in
heart break.
How did you come out
to your parents?
My mother first heard of my lifestyle preference from others
while out running errands, by the time she got home, she was pissed and cursed
me out. And I let her say what she needed to say at that time.
I continued to be myself and after a couple of years, my mother became used to my lifestyle. And at the age of 18, my mother came to me and asked if I was gay. Though scared, I stood tall and told her “yes I’m gay”. And I was pleased to hear my mother tell me that “she wants me to be happy and if choosing this lifestyle makes me happy then she is good with that”.
I continued to be myself and after a couple of years, my mother became used to my lifestyle. And at the age of 18, my mother came to me and asked if I was gay. Though scared, I stood tall and told her “yes I’m gay”. And I was pleased to hear my mother tell me that “she wants me to be happy and if choosing this lifestyle makes me happy then she is good with that”.
How have you experienced being out to your family and friends?
Well I’ve been out for some time, and the most of my family
are aware. However some don’t like the fact that I am gay. But they can’t tell
me what to do, because first off they didn’t raise me and secondly they ought
to be happy with the decisions that I make because I am happy.
I am happy that I am gay and nothing will change my mind.
What are your dating experiences and preferences?
I was at the age of 14-15 years old when I started to date a girl, she was the same age as I was, but I now prefer dating older ladies. In my experience dealing with males, teenage love or relationships are never a good idea. Young girls can get lost in the “talks” of guys and don’t pay attention to what’s going on. And young girls should keep their heads on because men usually say one thing and do another. And they will always try and get you to have sex with them. But don’t give it up too easy young ladies even though they may say they love you.
I love to date women that are older than me because young girls are still young and they usually haven’t made up their mind to whether they are gay or not. Now older women know what they like and what they want. They are mature and don’t play childish games. In my experience, relationships with young girls never worked out and usually resulted in constant arguing and even cheating. My relationships with older women tend to go smoothly with very few arguments if any at all.
I love to date women that are older than me because young girls are still young and they usually haven’t made up their mind to whether they are gay or not. Now older women know what they like and what they want. They are mature and don’t play childish games. In my experience, relationships with young girls never worked out and usually resulted in constant arguing and even cheating. My relationships with older women tend to go smoothly with very few arguments if any at all.
Saturday, February 22, 2014
HE SAID WHAT???? (This is a MUST WATCH)
The newest edition to OUT&PROUD N SXM is the "He Said What?!" segment. This segment's star is none other than James Maduro. The very vocal father of Minelva Maduro (Author of Blog).
He is quick with his words and you just never know what's going to come out of his mouth!! And this time around he had something to say about Anonymous comments. Well... here you go!
If you can't stream the video, please click here to view on youtube.com
Enjoy! And be sure to tell us what you think.
Saturday, February 15, 2014
OUT & PROUD IN SXM FAN INTERVIEW
Our First Fan Interview with Shama Flurton
If you can't stream the video from the site. Click here to view on YouTube.com
Friday, February 14, 2014
Thursday, February 13, 2014
FAQ's (Frequently Asked Questions)
Question: Who are what inspired me to start this blog?
Answer: First of all, let me say this to you; be honest, be transparent, you don't have anything to hide. If they cannot deal with your honesty, that's their problem, not yours.
With that said, I've been working on this for a long time now. My problem was figuring out which angle to take when putting my thoughts out there. Constantly watching people hurting because of their sexual preferences, because their scared of what their families and peers would think of them is not an easy burden to carry around.
I've watched Mrs. Crystal Chappell Sabatino on a few shows now, helping others to come out and to be proud of who they are. And I followed her lead and said "now is the time for me to launch my blog" and to do the same; helping others like myself to come out and be proud. Nothing happens before its time and now is my time.
I'm proud of who I am and having others come out makes me happy. Again I must thank Crystal Chappell for the inspiration and the push.
Remember the journey towards happiness is the most rewarding part of the adventure you call life.
M. Maduro.
With that said, I've been working on this for a long time now. My problem was figuring out which angle to take when putting my thoughts out there. Constantly watching people hurting because of their sexual preferences, because their scared of what their families and peers would think of them is not an easy burden to carry around.
I've watched Mrs. Crystal Chappell Sabatino on a few shows now, helping others to come out and to be proud of who they are. And I followed her lead and said "now is the time for me to launch my blog" and to do the same; helping others like myself to come out and be proud. Nothing happens before its time and now is my time.
I'm proud of who I am and having others come out makes me happy. Again I must thank Crystal Chappell for the inspiration and the push.
Remember the journey towards happiness is the most rewarding part of the adventure you call life.
M. Maduro.
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